Saturday, February 25, 2017

I'm loving this weather!

Between it being lighter outside later on and the weather being in the 60's while still in February how could I not resist celebrating by visiting one of my favorite summer pastimes????   



What better way to celebrate the end of one of the most mild winters here in NYC then enjoying a rooftop???? Monarch is one of my favorite rooftops......It is so classy, has the right vibe and I love butterflies!!!!! I had to snap a picture by this beautiful butterfly light fixture that adds to the splendor of Monarch Rooftop!!! The view is breathtaking And the best part???? It has a view of the Empire State Building......It is truly a hidden gem in Midtown West.

I was born in the summer time for a reason.....I am allergic to the winter and do not fare well when it is freezing outside. I truly feel like a new born butterfly that could finally spread her wings and fly away!!!!! Cheers to the pre-warm weather!!!!!! :) 

Keep it classy New York City!!!!! 

Monday, February 20, 2017

Power Couples

You may have heard a new phrase (term) that has been coined: Power Couples. I think it was originally derived from celebrity couples that are both very powerful in Hollywood & very busy building an empire.   I am not writing about that. I am writing to speak passionately about every day Power Couples that are very career-oriented, good role models for their children, and are very interested in bettering themselves as individuals and making their relationship (marriage) stay strong (become stronger). Power Couples know better not to flaunt their private business all over social media i.e. Facebook, Instagram, etc....They know that couples that do that are craving attention and know it is all for show and sugar coated BS. Power Couples know to keep their private life to themselves online and offline. 

I have a great deal of admiration for Power Couples here in New York City which is why I am dedicating a whole blog entry to this topic. New York City Power Couples for me adds to the glitz & glam for my love of NYC. I admire them because they are very busy both in their careers, highly ambitious, and when they marry they make a great team: They live in reality, meaning they know better than to flaunt their relationship all over social media and want the world to see how "blissfully happy they are" along with acting like this in person.  Anyone knows that people that plaster their whole life on social media i.e. pictures and posts know it is all for show. Power Couples keep their private business to themselves and focus on their careers and being great parents and role models for their children. They have their head on their shoulders and feel no need to act like pretentious braggarts. They don't need the superficial, pseudo-attention to stroke their egos and feel good about themselves because they know their worth and not delusional.




No relationship is easy, and these are one of the many reasons why some couples are classified as Power Couples: They are very busy working on their professional goals and maintaining a healthy, happy & fruitful marriage....


Cheers! Keep it classy 💞💑




Change of Seasons

It's beginning to look a lot like.........SPRING!!!! ☀💮⚘💮⚘☀

Now that the Winter season is just about over here in New York, I must say what a mild winter it was indeed! I had the most pleasant day enjoying the preview of the Spring season that is looming just around the corner!!!

                                               This is how I feel:
I feel like I have been a caterpillar for so long and now I have finally reached the last stage of metamorphosis and have turned into a beautiful, large fluttery butterfly and have just learned to spread my wings and fly away! 




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It is amazing how it could be freezing one week to a prelude of Spring time a whole other week later! I had to enjoy the change of season here at Bryant Park because I love it here.....I have spent many time here over the years and it has a very special place in my heart. This will always be my #1 favorite park :) 



Sunday, February 12, 2017

Miss Independent

There is something about being a woman who has her own independence more specifically, having your own finances and career in order that make you feel on top of the world. You feel like you spread your wings and you are flying. 
Bringing this blog entry back to reality in a more literal sense, I mean to say it is a very powerful feeling to be a woman who does not have to depend on a man for any financial support. Times, well they are changing.....Women are breaking barriers.  Much more women in the 21st century are going to college, building their careers and delaying marriage & children.  They are no longer type casted as the "housewife" who has to stay home and raise the kids and keep the house spotless.  The man a.k.a. husband is no longer deemed the "bread winner." In fact, a lot more women these days are making more money than their husbands and a lot of them are now staying home and playing the role of Mr. Mom. A lot more women have now climbed the corporate ladder and are CEO's, doctors, teachers, lawyers, etc... I am not a feminist by any means, I like to refer to myself as a "humanist." I fight and speak out my mind in what I believe in regarding any topic I feel very passionate about: Religion, prejudice, injustice, etc....
As a matter of fact, as of recently, studies show more women are entering college more than men are at an alarming rate:  "In the 25-34 age group, 37.5% of women have a bachelor's degree or higher, while only 29.5% of men do. (Rates of college attainment for men and women in this age group are increasing roughly equally.) But for the over-65 crowd, only 20.3% of women have such degrees, compared to 30.6% of men." -Time.com
Here is another article that was written in March of 2016 that goes into further detail:
What a breakthrough!  I don't know about you, but I worked very hard with blood, sweat & tears to attain these two degrees I have framed and I would not let it go to waste.  I knew (know) this would be a stepping stone in creating myself a very bright future ahead....
Whether you like to believe it or not, a woman who does not have or gives up her job/career once she settles down and raises a family I strongly believe is creating an invisible disparity.  Even if the man she marries is a great catch, perfect gentleman, family man, he will always feel superior and feel he "wears the pants" in the family because he is the one who brings home the bacon. It does not matter that she slaves day in and day out to raise the children full time, keep the home immaculate and take care of her husband, and believe me I know it is a thankless job but if you're not making any money and not working any kind of proverbial 9-5 job, then sweetie, it does not matter, because at the end of the day if you are unhappy in your marriage or just want to exercise freedom and feel powerful & independent that will not cut it. In a more grim reality, and I am speaking realistically here and not negatively, if a woman marries a man who is not ideal (speaking mildly) well then she already starts off financially dependent on him that snowballs into an avalanche. She cannot leave so easily for obvious reasons. She has to figure out how she is going to pick up & start off fresh with no disposable income and any kind of job to speak of. And in order for her to start this new life she has to make sure she receives enough money from her soon to be ex-husband and make sure she could even afford a good attorney and win enough alimony in court in order for her near future to be secure in any way.  This would probably explain why that during the baby boomer era there were MUCH fewer divorces than there are now, along with other reason (s) of course.




The answer is YES! You could have it all and it is being done as we speak! This is also the entire point of this blog entry! These are one of the many reasons why growing up I knew I was going to graduate from college and embark on a career to make something of myself and feel free of needing to depend on ANYONE, especially a man a.k.a. husband for anything along with feeling respected, confident and proud of myself as a woman. For any of you that do not agree/believe what I say, get your head out of the sand! Anyone that really knows me knows I am not one to sugar coat anything, I am very direct and brutally honest. It is true, and if you beg to differ, well then to each their own! As long as you're happy living in lala land that is fine by me! 
The glass ceiling still exists but it is great to know that there is great progress and slow progress is better than no progress at all! I am writing this because I feel very passionate about this topic especially given the breakthrough we as women are making one new statistic and news article at a time! 

Nostalgia Cafe'

First off, I would like to belatedly wish everyone a Happy New Year & Chinese New Year! 


I am enjoying it so far and trying to keep warm now that it is finally getting very cold during this winter season. Of course I cannot enjoy it without my habitual coffee! Surprisingly so, I was craving iced coffee on an icy day :) 



I am taking a stroll down memory lane while I am taking a sip from my delicious iced coffee.....


Nostalgia!!!! I am feeling nostalgic!!! Thanks to my computer saving all my old work from graduate school I have recovered a lot of my old research papers I have written while studying education.  I couldn't believe that my new desktop was able to save all of these "masterpieces" that I worked so hard on while I was studying to be a teacher. I wanted to save it and keep it in my portfolio so I could also use it to showcase my writing and what I learned and wrote about.
After scrolling through a bunch of papers/work I had written over the course of 3 years while graduating with my M.S. in education I felt like it was an out of body experience. After reading through them it did not feel like it was me that had written them. I do not know why and I am having a hard time explaining why. To be honest, I was pretty impressed with my writing style and very proud of myself and thoroughly enjoyed reading these after nearly 7 years almost as if I am on the outside looking in. 
I am going to copy and paste on here some of my favorite research papers I have written.  This first one is my Personal History paper. This is also very apropos to bring up because what I wrote is the main topic of news in today's current events more than ever before:


Dara Danziger
Professor Miller
EDUC504
Personal History Paper
October 12, 2008

My life has not been diverse at all.  I grew up in a school district ten minutes from where I live where the community is predominately Jewish and Italian.  Whites are the predominant race, and within the white race are an overwhelming majority of Jews and Italians.  All other races are a minority: I only remember seeing three black people, and two of them were brother and sister and the other girl ended up leaving by the time I got to the high school.  I spent Kindergarten through 12th grade at Byram Hills school district and when I first moved there when I was around six years old, someone told my dad that there were not a lot of Jews.  Well, boy did that change.  I look back on that and laugh because I can not believe the overwhelming amount of Jews and Italians that went to my school.  I really do not remember seeing more than a handful of oriental and Spanish students either.  My school is very small, but expanding at an alarming rate as we speak.  There were 175 students in my graduating class.  I remember one issue that happened in my high school that really struck a cord: one day there was this huge fight in the cafeteria.  There happened to be a black girl who transferred to my high school and some wise guy who is Italian American made a racist remark in front of her face.  Well, it turns out she went chasing him down the hall in a rage.  That scenario on race always stuck in my head.  It was not until I got to college that I saw a lot more types of race and ethnicity.  At my college, there were a lot of blacks.  I was friends with a black girl for a while and she told me that there were not a lot of “black” people, meaning people that were black Americans.  Most of the blacks in my college came from the islands or Africa.  After she told me that I never realized it, but she was right.  I looked around me at the people in my classes and I do not remember meeting anyone else that was not from the islands or Africa.  My friend who told me this was always from New York and her family grew up in New York too.  Come to think of it, I do not remember seeing any oriental people at my college either.  I am a white Jew, but I never considered myself religious.  Whenever anyone would ask me what nationality I am I would just always think of myself as “white.”  I asked my parents what nationality I really am, because I really do not know much except that my great grandfather was polish, and my grandfather on my mother’s side has some German.   I do know for sure that I am 25% Irish because my grandmother on my mother’s side of the family was 100% Irish.  My mother is half Jewish and half Irish.  I asked my father specifically on my nationality and he did not really know either, he just said, “why don’t you do some research on it?” 
            My identity as a learner is pretty limited.  All throughout school I have never been exposed to cultural, ethnic and racial issues, or around diversity.  I feel like after high school ended I was not prepared to face the reality of various other people that followed different traditions and were not white.  I identify as a learner with an open mind, I know there are lots of stereotypes for every culture and race but I try to not let that affect my learning.  My identity as a learner is expanding everyday; I have been in school for so long and keep accumulating so many classes that I begin to understand all sides of one cultural/racial/ethnic issue.  These issues come into play now that I am enrolled in the graduate education program.  One class I am taking focuses on early education and it mentions the issue of race.  My professor said that all children do not know what race is and there is no issue between each child.  What creates a racial issue is from their upbringing: their family influences them to have prejudices and racial and cultural views against a certain type culture.  This eventually leads children growing up stereotyping others and vice versa.  My professor also said that throughout his teaching career he has seen a high school cafeteria all being segregated by each cultural group.  Every group has a stereotype against each other and refuses to talk to other groups; and this in turn creates a dispute and segregation of each culture and race.  I think of all these things as I learn them in my classes so I understand that unfortunately this is what the world is about.  One class I remember taking in college was speech, but a lot of issues on feminism were brought up.  I remember in that class how we spoke about different issues such as women going to college, the glass ceiling and what was expected of women a while ago.  I will never forget that class because I loved it and we spoke about major issues that are about feminism.  We also saw videos on women in different countries and what life is like for them living in that country.  It shed new light on what it is like to be a woman in other parts of the world.  So that experience contributed to my identity as a learner.  To conclude what stands out the most of that speech class is that I learned that more women then men are now in enrolled in college.  That is a huge milestone. 
            This affects my potential as a teacher because when I start teaching I will put all these experiences I have gained into the back of my mind.  To be honest, as previously stated; I do not have much experience with culturally diverse people compared to most people.  I grew up in the suburbs in a very small school and even though it is located in New York I was far away from the city area.  I think there is much more diversity in the city area, so other people that were raised there experienced a lot of diversity.  While beginning my teaching career I will keep an open mind to everyone and especially since I am taking this course.  This cultural perspectives course is providing insight on how to teach children that come from other countries.  I will also gain experience while doing my teacher observations and student teaching.  I do not think that lack of cultural diversity has anything to do with my potential as a teacher.  Teachers need to be caring and nurturing and open to differences; those are the ingredients of good teaching skills.  Teachers also have to know how to affectively teach ELL’s in the mainstream classroom.   
            My identity as a member of my cultural group Judaism does not offer much of a bearing on my potential and knowledge as a learner and teacher.  I do not feel I am a “member” of any cultural/racial/ethnic group.  First of all, I am not religious and barely attend services.  Although I did get bat-mitzvahed, I did not continue to read the bible or go to services that often.  Joining a temple is very expensive but I did used to attend services for Yom Kippur when I was young.  Whenever anyone asks me about my culture I always say that I am not religious and to be honest, it feels strange going into detail of my religion since I am not religious at all.
            I have stated examples that I have seen first hand from my own personal experiences.  Even though they are limited, it is enough to provide insight on how I feel schools and education make assumptions on the topic of race, culture and ethnicity.  I have learned that if a teacher does not feel the student can learn since they do not understand English fluently, then the student will in fact fail.  This called the self-fulfilling prophecy.  For example, it is controversial as to how to incorporate ESL in schools.  It has its pros and cons.  It has a lot of pros because ELL’s can have a time in the day where they learn English then be in mainstream the rest of the day.  It has its cons because then children are missing out on important information when they are in the ESL class.  It is too expensive to have an ESL specialist come into every classroom in one school, so unfortunately that cannot be done.  There are stereotypes for every culture and race, so I feel like it will be hard for teachers and other students to not judge others. I feel like it is part of human nature to judge others; especially with people that come from foreign places and who are very different from other students.   This barrier need to be broken down and a lot of people need to be open minded for the issue of race, culture and ethnicity not to be a problem. 
            I have discussed all parts relating to the subject of my culture, race and ethnicity.  I have also provided examples from what I have seen in my life and have learned in school about other cultures, races and ethnicities.  I hope I have provided insight in my own personal experiences growing up.     

I grew up in what I like to call a utopian society.  A small, lily white overly wealthy community where parents spoiled their children giving them the luxury of driving fancy cars, endless limits to credit cards, growing up in houses large & opulent enough that look like Buckingham Palace, vacations and so on. No child knew the meaning of a dollar, for all they knew money grew on trees. Humble & grateful they were not. They were more like obnoxious, snooty pigs that made most of my 12 years of being in that school district miserable & a form of capital punishment. They formed their cliques in elementary school and it was ironclad since that day forward, so if you didn't fit in then your fate was sealed and you were destined to be indelibly ostracized and made a pariah. 
They all lived in a bubble, let alone all being "white" and not growing up with any diversity at all, whatsoever. I even recall one day during gym class in high school the main group of pretentious, repugnant schmucks in my grade that to this day make me want to puke my brains out just thinking about them, having a actual debate over whose father made more money. Need I say more?  It was a very small town and as I mentioned in my paper just as small a school. In retrospect, I pity them more than feel any animosity for them because I think they were just very ignorant and lived in never, never land.  I would like to touch on and reiterate what I wrote in my Personal History paper regarding my ethnic background: I do not identify with any type of religion. I do come from mixed backgrounds like I had stated, both my parents and their family's were not at all religious whatsoever. Today as an adult I do not belong to any organized religion; I never felt like I had one anyway growing up. I have my own set of beliefs and ideals and that is good enough for me and how I am living my life.   
 I am very proud of myself that I have acted upon what I said I would be like when becoming a teacher and being just as empathetic, loving and supportive of students from all different races, ethnicities & economic backgrounds.

Dara Danziger
EDUC 514
July 24, 2009

            A lot of discoveries have been made in the world of early childhood education.  It is a known fact that children need to feel loved and supported.  The most important growth of the human growth of the brain is the first two years of their life.  Children that are loved and not loved have a great impact on their brain development.  A study was conducted that had to do with convicts in prison.  These inmates were unable to form attachments because they were abused as children.  The baby responds to their mother’s voice within the first few months of their life.  It is very important for the mother to make eye contact with their child.  The mother, or who ever the primary care giver is, should read and sing to their baby.  The baby gets used to their parents speech and makes eye contact.  It is fine if the baby is in day care, but the parents should also bond with their child at night so they can spend some quality time with them. 
            It is also proven that children do much better in school when their parents get involved.  Teachers who are very positive toward the parent and the child and who are responsive to parent and child needs form a respectful relationship with the parent.  Parents of special needs want to feel valued, and receive feedback on how things are going with their child.  The parent view is more community centered- which means seeking more than just parental involvement in the classroom or school activities.  There was a study by Swick that showed what parents look for in their relationship with early childhood professionals.   Here are a few:  Parents want some who cares about them and their children, parents want respect and to be seen as an effective member of their child’s education team and to be a part of a relationship that is collaborative and communicative. 
If I had a young child that was going to day care, there would be a few implications I would look out for when placing him or her there.  First of all, I would make sure that I would have a rapport with the teacher.  I would want to make sure me and that teacher are on the same page.  I would make sure that I would agree with the way the teacher ran the class and what activities the children were involved in.  Secondly, I would want to look at the day care center first to make sure that there is a lot of activity going on and lots of games and toys.  I would want to see the teacher and the teacher aide’s all interacting with the children.
Those are the main points I would look for when placing my child in childcare.   Also, I would find out if they ever go outside and play, and how much recess time they get.  I think this is important because children need to be able to play and have fun with the other children.  I would also make sure that the teacher rewards the children and also disciplines them if they do something bad.  If I saw that she could not control her class then I would not place a child there. 
            I would make sure that the class room was clean and everything is neatly put away.  I would also ask my child if he or she is having a good time there.  If the child said no then I would figure out why, and if it has something to do with the way the program is ran, then I would pull the child out of it.  Most importantly, I would want to see a lot of play going on in the day care center.  It is so important for these children to play and learn basic things too.  

             After reading this, I must say I really hit the nail on the head. It is very imperative if not necessary to apply these ideologies with young children whether you are the parent and/or the teacher. After teaching in early childhood education, what I wrote as a graduate student & novice fits like a missing piece to a puzzle. 

Dara Danziger
EDUC513
Professor Ashley
October 22, 2008

There are many different types of play.  First of all, a baby is always playing even when he or she is born.  Babies love when adults are around them and they are given things to play with; they love the repetition.  Contrasting types of play can begin with solitary and parallel play.  Solitary play is when the child is playing with the toys by themselves and do not want to bothered to play with other children.  This type of play is typically for beginners.  A contrasting style is parallel play.  This is when the child sits side by side with the other child but they are not directly playing with each other.  Both children share their toys and do not coordinate their play or connect to their play with each other.  This usually leads into group play.  After this comes associative group play.  This is the first type of play when children are involved with playing with each other and are involved with similar activities with each other.  The children share their same materials but do not create a play of joint focus.  A contrasting style of this is cooperative play.  This is a type of play where children are now making a great effort to come up with a theme and roles of their peers.  There is a lot of communication with this type of play; the child tells his or her friends what exactly the play will be about.  There is a lot of communication to establish the main idea of what this type of play is about. The children really create a whole story line to act out.
All of this play can be connected to the three domains: psychomotor, affective and cognitive.  All of these domains start from objects the children play with and their surroundings and interactions and cognitive growth.  Children organize and categorize while they are playing with each other and this allows the children to use their three domains while engaging in different types of play.  This allows children to use their cognitive skills while thinking and using objects in new ways and increasing their ability to think in new ways and to solve problems. 
This article can be used on an interview in various ways.  First of all, a person on the interview can discuss the types of stages of play a child goes through; this shows that the person is aware of the cognitive development a baby goes through as he or she continues to grow up.  Another thing a person on an interview can discuss is how a child begins to develop their own feelings and is able to take on the perspective of others.  Play allows the child to express and cope with their feelings in a world that is not a real world.  A person can discuss how play is beneficial to a child’s self esteem.  Play feeds into the child’s emotional development.  Play allows the child to feel protected, the need for power and the need to attack and destroy.  Play allows children to feel free to use their imagination and their feelings and impulses.  This also allows the child to cope with the good and bad that the real world unfortunately consists of.
A person can talk about how play allows for social development.  Children are tested to see what is socially acceptable and unacceptable.  Play also has a lot to do with children’s physical development.  Play allows the child to run, climb and skip.  This helps their gross and fine motor skills to be practiced.  Children even start doing cartwheels and jump.  Their hand-eye coordination develops as well. 
A person on an interview can discuss how important it is for children to engage in play.  After the interviewee goes into the dynamics of the types of play and how that enables the child to develop in all three domains, I think this will show the interviewer that the person has the knowledge of what the child develops as the child continuously plays.

Currently working in a preschool setting, I must say that this is also paramount and a blue print for how children should be and how to engage and interact with other peers while going to school as a toddler up to Pre-K.  Children need to run around with physical activity along with being able to use their active imagination while playing and forming early social interactions.   
This article posted below goes into more detail regarding what I had wrote about the important of play, classroom techniques & early childhood social interactions. This article also touches up on the role of what psychology plays into the world & study of education/teaching: 

513 Midterm
Dara Danziger
Professor Ashley
November 22, 2008




  1. The three domains go as follows: psychomotor, cognitive and affective.  The psychomotor domain is based on the physical development of the child.  When a baby is first born, the child has limited visual acuity.  However, the child is still very sensitive to the environment around him or her.  The child is in need of a great sensory experience: such as tough, interactive toys, mobiles and so forth.  This is also the part of the domain that has to do with gross motor development, fine motor development, sensory and perceptual-motor abilities.  Gross motor development is based on the child’s physical movements such as sitting, standing, walking and running.  Fine motor development is based on self-help skills that have to do with eating and dressing.  The baby has a lot of reflexes such as sucking and grasping.  Perceptual-motor development is based on eye-hand and eye-foot coordination.  The baby’s sensory experience is based on what adults have: hear, taste, smell and touch.  Cognitive development is all about early brain development and language development.  The child’s brain is very plastic when he or she is first born; it takes years for the brain to fully development.  Language development is a very critical period for children.  It is very important for parents to always help their children with language because when they are young their brains can soak up information like a sponge.  The affective domain focuses on their social and emotional development.  When babies are born they come into the world as John Locke’s Tabula Rosa (a blank slate).  Children will not grow if they do not feel good about themselves.  What makes a child’s temperament “easy” is that he or she can accept change and what makes a child’s temperament “difficult” is that these types of children do not have clear expectations.
  1. Two ideas for enrichment for the affective domain are play and emotional support.  It is very important for parents and teachers to make sure that the child is always playing with themselves and with others.  This cannot be stressed enough because play is what sets the child’s foundation for healthy social development.  There are so many sub-categories of play; play can be anything that has the child’s mind running over time with imagination.  This can range from a child being a parent, dressing up as a super hero and so forth.  Emotional support is a very key enrichment tool, especially for the parent.  Parents have to make sure that they build and maintain a consistent, healthy emotional relationship with their child.  They must set clear rules and keep their discipline and encouragement persistent.  When a child knows they are loved, the child will most likely be very healthy emotionally.  Two ideas for the enrichment for the psychomotor domain are games and outdoor activities.  It is important for children to always be using their brains.  Parents and teachers should buy any kinds of games so children can use this sensory input into their brains.  This can be anywhere from drawing, Light Bright and even video games.  Physical activity is also important because a child needs to run around to attain their physical and emotional well being.  A child should be able to go outside and play various supports, and even run around.  This is vital because this the domain where their hand-eye coordination are being developed.  Two enrichment ideas for the cognitive domain are using objects, symbols and speaking to the child.  Objects and symbols are important for the child because when he or she is first born they are aware of their environment; and it is the responsibility of the parent to make sure the baby uses his or her sensory input.  Language needs to be used to foster the baby’s cognitive development as well, because if the child does not hear articulate speech, then the child will not be able to speak correctly and will have speech problems later on.
  1.  Developmentally Appropriate Practice is developed by the National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC).  Developmentally Appropriate Practice (DAP) deals with the children’s needs, teaching methods, classroom arrangement and so on.  The teacher must be able to use his or lesson plans for the correct age group.  The age of the children must flow with the material and the way the teacher teaches his or her class.  Children need outside experience, activity and play equipment must be age appropriate.  DAP builds a meaningful curriculum for the care of children.  DAP is connected with the professional standards of FAPE and to the children and families.  Teachers must understand that children do not learn the same way and teachers establish the foundation of the classroom. 
  1. The classroom can be described as being “rich in the area of literacy” by the way the classroom is structured.  The classroom must have tons of books of all subjects that interest the students, the walls must be covered with different information and mnemonic devices to help the children learn the material more easily so they can become literate in all subjects that the teacher teaches.  The teacher should have book clubs and reading books, and make the subject of reading exciting and entertaining for the students, so that way the students will be looking forward to reading and learning various subjects.
  1. Five major Characteristics of good teaching go as follows: 1. Setting clear and consistent rules 2. Having children develop pro social skills 3. Treating each student with the same amount of respect 4. Never embarrassing a child 5. Always revitalizing your knowledge as a teacher to be more effective.  The teacher must have rules in the beginning of the school year so the student’s know what to expect from the teacher.  The teacher must always be consistent with them and never out of order with the rewards, punishment and discipline.  One of the responsibilities of a teacher is to make sure his or her students develop pro social skills.  This can be created by encouraging play, setting an area of the room for play, placing students in groups according to similar interests so students can develop a rapport with each other.  A teacher must be sensitive to each child and be aware that a child is easily embarrassed.  This is critical because if a teacher embarrasses a child once, you will more than likely lose the child forever.  It is very important for teachers to research online and elsewhere different and new teaching methods and attending workshops to be aware of the new ways of teaching methods and technology. 
  1. There are a lot of major characteristics of a classroom that needs to be used to have a positive culture and climate.  There needs to be a lot of social interaction, children working in groups, model appropriate adult behavior, model appropriate behavior for sharing then get the children to do it.  A good classroom needs to provide materials for socio-dramatic play.  Children should be mentally and physically active.  Other factors include but not limited to: let children deal with opportunities, draw attention to other people’s feelings, change ineffective social behavior by setting rules to change, state expectations, change those rules into actions and give opportunities to do that.  Teachers cannot just talk to their students; they must let the children play games and act on it.  The classroom needs to be a safe environment, teachers need to teach children to develop self regulation, and teachers must discuss anger, conflict resolution and involve the family.  The physical climate of the room must not be too hot or too cold, a comfortable temperature is at about 68 degrees.  When I observe a classroom I would be looking for the involvement of the teacher using different teaching styles to make sure each child learns in various ways, I would look for the teacher being kind and sweet to his or students but at the same time making sure the kids   behave.  I would want the classroom to be enriched with toys, games, not too much but just enough information on the wall such as what they accomplished throughout the year, various jobs the child has in class, such as doing the lunch count, collecting homework and so forth.  It would be nice to see a chart on the board where a child did a “get to know me” sort of project where the child has a picture of them and what he or she enjoys as a hobby.  I would expect the climate of the room to be comfortable enough where you do not need to wear a t-shirt and you do not need a winter jacket in the class to feel comfortable. 
  1. Cephalocaudal development is based on the physical growth of the child.  It is the idea that physical development starts from head-to-tail in a top down sequence.  This goes back to the beginning of man when humans were not evolved physically.  Proximodistal is from the middle out.  This all follows a developmental process.  This has to do with the physical developmental process of a child.  This encompasses the abilities of a child learning how to walk, coordination, balance, gross and fine motor skills.  It is a progression from gross to fine motor skills.  It is also an increase in speed.  There is no exact age range when a child should be at the level of each stage of physical development; so the parent should not be worried if a child is slightly delayed with learning how to crawl and walk and other physical abilities that the child learns growing up.
  1. Play sets the foundation for the emotional and social development of the child.  There are various types of play, but the point of play is for a child to use their imagination and creativity to develop in a healthy way to adulthood.  Vygotsky thought of play as allowing children to differentiate thinking. For him it means to develop self regulation.  He though of socio-dramatic play where it is symbolic plays where kids can imagine adult roles or fantasy roles.  This allows them to imagine and use their social skills.  It is healthy for children to revert to acting like a baby.  Teachers can encourage socio-dramatic play by modeling behaviors and acting out.  Play does not have to have rewards and it is vital for the teacher and parents to allow them to act out non traditional things.  The first thing is for the teacher to observe the children.  When play diminishes then a teacher should elaborate or change the psychodynamics of the group.  The next step is to model behaviors and model something that the children can look at and use in their group.  Then the teacher should plan by setting up activities to get children involved.  The teacher must observe, model, elaborate and evaluate then come up with the next activity.  The cognitive point of view is that play develops cognition.  It starts with concrete objects then the children explore their surroundings.  Play allows for maturation for gross and fine motor skills.  The environment has to support the children’s learning.  Illicit play is inappropriate play but it serves the purpose to make children aware of what is not allowed.  This type of play needs to be discouraged for children.  Children do not know it’s illicit, they are just acting out what they see and play is a learning strategy.  The instructivist view says play allows children to explore their world, form concepts and interact with others.  One of the most important types of play is fantasy play.  This is when the child pretends they are a super hero and other action figures.  A great example is Halloween.  This allows a child to use their imagination and to dress up as whatever they want to expand their creative horizons.  


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